SINGER-ACTRESS Karylle Tatlonghari opened up about the persistent societal expectations placed on women regarding marriage and motherhood, firmly rejecting the idea that a woman’s worth is diminished by her personal life choices.
During the media conference for the unscripted series “Manila Matriarchs” held in Taguig City on November 9, the “It’s Showtime” host addressed the pressure she receives from online commenters and public expectations.
When asked how she defines success in a culture with rigid expectations for women, Karylle emphasized that she does not measure her life through traditional societal markers.
“Good thing growing up, that was never the way I viewed things,” she said. “The idea of not having a child at my age is really a big topic on my feed.”
Karylle recalled a past incident where she became the target of false pregnancy rumors online. The experience was particularly challenging because well-meaning fans were celebrating news that was untrue. She noted that such topics are often exploited by clickbait algorithms to drive online engagement.
Despite facing harsh commentary on social media regarding her family choices, Karylle remains steadfast in prioritizing her personal health and peace over public validation.
“Will I make myself sick just to make you guys happy?” she candidly stated. “So that I’m not sayang? Am I sayang? I don’t think so.”
To cope with online negativity and intrusive comments, the singer shared that she steps away from her phone on vulnerable days and leans on her long-time friends for support.
“On those days, I don’t check my phone. I close the accounts on my phone,” Karylle explained. “I’m very blessed that my friends, I’ve known them since I was four… that’s where I go.”
Instead of letting external timelines dictate her life, Karylle continues to focus on her growth as a multi-hyphenate artist. Alongside her hosting duties, she is currently expanding her creative portfolio by studying scriptwriting under National Artist Ricky Lee.
“Manila Matriarchs” features a diverse group of women navigating life, careers, and personal growth under the unscripted reality lens. (Chloe Galapate © Philippine Daily Inquirer)
