I’M SERIOUSLY looking for a boyfriend.
As it was in September 2015, so it is today.
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What am I looking for?
There is no accounting for my taste (I married a white American 22 years my senior, and bedded a blue-eyed blonde 26 years my junior soon after my husband died), so I really have no particular type.
But I know that I want more than just a platonic relationship, and definitely more than just a fling.
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I want a boyfriend, a lover, perhaps a future husband.
He must be gay.
I don’t really like straight men, and I don’t fancy bisexuals and transexuals either (they’ll do for a hook up, but that’s just about it.)
He must be HIV negative; and if he has STD history, he must have been treated.
No offense meant; it’s just my personal preference.
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If he is over 35, he must be financially stable.
If he is younger, like 18 to 25, he must be a real trophy boyfriend.
If he is between 25 and 35, he must have at least a job.
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He must be faithful, honest, and with a heart for monogamy.
Also, there can only be one drama queen in the relationship, and I reserve the right to claim the throne, err, the role.
Emotionally unstable people will not be considered.
I maybe a rescue person, but I don’t want to be a babysitter in a relationship.
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Why should gay men even bother to apply?
Short answer: For a chance at love in the age of Facebook, Google, and YouTube.
Long answer: Because life is short, and we cannot quit loving, and everyone deserves to be loved, even the great Peter Solis Nery!
Also, being with someone is a gift that I can give.
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What to expect?
I promise to do (note: the verb is ‘do’, not ‘try’) everything for a mutually beneficial relationship.
I wouldn’t mind spending to dine and wine my lover in high places.
If he wants excursions abroad, he must have a passport.
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I am not a fool, and I will not be a milking cow.
I am smart that way, so opportunists need not apply.
I will not try to buy your love.
I’m not that kind of guy.
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Warning: HIV tests, and background checks including NBI clearance (it’s a passport requirement, isn’t it?), will be made.
I have no interest if you have a criminal record!
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Think of this as the reality TV show The Bachelor or The Bachelorette, only, it’s The Widower Peter Solis Nery who is looking for a lover at this time.
This 30-day quest for a boyfriend starts on September 1, 2015.
If an ideal partner is found, official dating will start on October 1st.
If not, life will go on.
But before then, let’s give September a chance for a most memorable romance.
Are you up for the boyfriend position?
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[Update: The Boyfriend Project is ongoing. I’m really open for dates. Message me on Facebook or Instagram to connect.
PM is key! Haha.
No, seriously. I want a boyfriend!]
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If you know of nice gay men who may be interested, or who you think have a chance, please feel free to refer them to my Facebook page.
Thank you, and may God bless you for helping love spread around.
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Sept. 1–
I’m not desperate to find a boyfriend.
I’m just a go-getter.
If I like something, I don’t wait for it to come to me; I do something about it.
“Nasa Dios ang awa, nasa tao ang gawa.”
Sure, I may appear aggressive, but I’m really just goal oriented and purposive in all things including love.
Online technology, Facebook particularly, has connected people dramatically, why not apply it to the search for a boyfriend?
With safety checks in place, what’s the worst that could happen? (To be continued)/PN
